Sex & Gender

How Can I Convince My Boyfriend to Have a Three-Way With Another Man?

You know Miami stripper Skrawberry for her rap skills, her political commentary,

and of course, her sexy moves on the pole. Now, you'll also know her

for her sound advice. In this weekly column, Skraw responds to readers'

questions about life, love, and beyond. Got a question for Skraw? Hit

her up at

Hey Skraw,,

Help a girl out. One of my fantasies forever has been having a three-way with two men. But my boyfriend isn't having it. I've tried to convince him every way I know how, saying I'll give him all kinds of sex if he'll do this one thing. But he's not moving on it. He won't say it but I think he's scared. We have been together for a couple months so its not too serious, but he's the best one I've found in awhile. You got tips to convince him to do this with me?


Hey, Holla,

This question is funny to me because I have never heard of a woman wantin' her man to engage in a sexual fantasy with another man. And good for him, because he is not givin' in. Your fantasy is not to have a three-way with another man — your fantasy is to have sex with two gay men.

I wouldn't suggest you try to convince your man to allow another man in y'all bedroom. Most straight men don't find it straight to watch another man have sex and be turned on. Besides that, he might really like you and don't want to see another man fuckin' his girl! Now, I'm pretty sure you can find two homeboys who wouldn't mind running a "train" on you — but then, that wouldn't be considered a "three-way," because instead of them engaging together, they'd be takin' turns.

If you want a three-way that bad with two men, don't involve your man. What I would suggest you do, if you wanna have a three-way with two men, is go to a swingers club. I'm pretty sure you'd find what you are looking for! Really, you've only been with your man a few months, meanin' the relationship is not even stable. If he didn't leave after you tried to turn him on to some "homosexual" activities, stay with him — especially if he make you happy (besides sayin' no to the three-way) He's a keeper!

Girl, you are a freak! I wouldn't be surprised to run into you in Miami Velvet or Trapeze. In fact, if he's willin' to try to make you happy, take him to one of the swingers clubs and have him watch. Have a big fuck-fest. Put two girls on him and you have your two men on you. That way, you both are doin' something interesting! That should be tons of fun!


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