He says he and a date went to Georges Kitchen for dinner when Farge attacked him verbally and pushed him. Barea says he called police, who wrote up a report, though no arrests were made. Barea then built the website, chronicling the event and the aftermath. Most recently, he has demanded Farge release footage of the incident that might have been recorded on the restaurant's security cameras.

Is this a story of a restaurateur who took an argument too far with a patron? Or is it an attempt to gain publicity and/or money in a society that gives merit to frivolous lawsuits?

Short Order contacted Barea through his DJ Dimarco website and spoke with him about what started the incident and what led Barea to build the website.

Barea said he and a date went to Georges to review it for his food blog, ForkU.

"Every time there's a new restaurant, I try to cover it. I like to write, so my friends and family can experience what I experienced. I'm not trying to make it a revenue-creating blog. It's just interesting to me," he said.

Barea arrived about 7 p.m. without reservations. "It was completely empty, but they said all the tables were reserved. Georges, the owner/manager, took us upstairs and told us to have a drink and he would work something out. They wanted to take us to the bar, basically."

Barea and his date had a drink and an appetizer, and after about 45 minutes, Farge came up and said a table was ready.

"He took us to the downstairs bar. It was just another bar. He said this was the bar table, and I said what about all the other tables that were available? He said, 'That's all I have,' and he walked away.

"At that point, I talked with my date and we decided to not eat at the bar. We started leaving and I saw Georges at the door and I told him I felt very discontented and badly treated by service staff and him and that I was going to have to give an honest rendition on my blog.

"I hate to say this, because it sounds so alarmist, but he got so upset that his restaurant would be seen as how it really is. He looked at me and said, 'If you do this, I'm going to destroy you.' The fact is that he reacted in a violent way and in a bigoted way. It became a power trip for him, and he tried to physically and verbally intimidate me. I told him at that point that I'm going to write about that too. That's when he head-butted me almost into traffic."

At that point, Barea called police. Two officers arrived and questioned all parties. No arrests were made, but a police report was filed. Barea told Short Order that when the altercation happened, there were no witnesses.

"The host and people were on the inside of the restaurant. I tried to have a discussion in a nice way; then [Farge] sent his people in before he escalated it. The restaurant has a camera. We're trying to get the footage."

Barea said he started the website because he has a digital media background, so it made sense.

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"The whole goal is not to sue someone. I'm just trying to report an incident. It's almost like a violation of my First Amendment rights.

"I'm just trying to let my community know that he treats a couple like this. He treats people who pay money to eat at his restaurant like this. I'm a peaceful person. I try to avoid conflict. But this gentleman... he's using gay bashing in our diverse community and he's being physical. The fact that he doesn't respect the First Amendment, the fact that he uses physical violence. Today it's me. Tomorrow it could be you. Maybe it would turn out worse."

Asked if Farge or any of his representatives has contacted him since the incident, Barea replied, "Nope."