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Hello, Kitty
Two weeks ago, my girl came down from Orlando to visit for the
weekend. I was stoked to spend time with her because we’ve been in a
long-distance relationship since January and have seen each other only
six times since then. I made plans for us to do all the things that
in-town couples do, and she seemed like she was having a great time.
Then, on Saturday, she decided to go have dinner with some of her
college friends. I was a little pissed she would let her girls cut into
our time, but I decided to be a cool boyfriend and let her go. Once she
was out, she sent me a text: There was a cute girl at the table. I know
she fools around with girls, but I assumed she was just casually
mentioning the girl’s hotness, so I texted back, “Cool.” The night went
on, and we texted back and forth about meeting up later. Then, around
midnight, all communication ceased. I had no idea what was going on and
eventually fell asleep on my couch — pissed. She waltzed in the next
morning all casual and said, “I fucked her.” I couldn’t believe it. I
told her to pack her shit and go. She apologized, but I insisted she
leave. Now I regret it. Should I have told her to go? Is it too late to
smooth everything over and get back to normal?
E.Z. Mark
Read Kitty’s answer here.