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Hello, Kitty: I’m 28 years old and have been in a committed
relationship with my boyfriend for close to three years. We’ve yet to
shack up but have definitely been talking about marriage a lot lately.
I would describe my feelings toward him as “love.” But I’d also call
them “bored.” I’m guessing this is normal, but I don’t see how I can
consider a lifetime with this guy when things between us are already so
extremely far from exciting. We used to get it on from the bedroom to
the kitchen. Now we seem to be just going through the motions and I’m
losing my mind! Truth is, I have some ideas on how we can spice up our
love life. But I’m afraid to approach him. He might think I’ve been
with someone else. How can I introduce a breath of fresh air without
making him think I’m trying to change “us” or that somehow I’ve changed
through some outside lovin’?
Frethus Pussee
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