Skrawberry's Guide to Dealing With Girl Drama

You know Miami stripper Skrawberry for her rap skills, her political commentary, and of course, her sexy moves on the pole. Now, you'll also know her for her sound advice. In this weekly column, Skraw responds to readers' questions about life, love, and beyond. Got a question for Skraw? Hit her up at skrawberry@miaminewtimes.com.

Dear Strawberry,

I have a question:

Why is it the women I like and help out are so cold to me, but so nice to guys that hit them and take from them? Then they wanna call me crying?



Let's be real: Are you dealing with women with minor drama, or women who are really being abused by their man? Because there's a huge difference. Abuse in relationships is serious, and if that's what you know is happening, you bein' selfish worrying about whether these women are gonna start treating you nice. If you really want some love from them, start worrying about their livelihoods instead of yourself! Call the cops, call a shelter, do something to help them stay safe, because that shit is scary.

But if it's women with minor drama, that's different. Maybe you need to stop dealin' with women who have relations with men who treat them bad. They love the drama and you can't change that. I'm pretty sure that soon as their own man treat them bad, you run with a shoulder for them to cry on. And soon as their man call and bait they ass up, they run right back to that man. Stop answering the phone from those dummies. They using you for their own entertainment. Tell they ass to stop callin' you with the bullshit because you'd rather not deal with it.

Probably you have a thing for drama-filled women. If you are in-fact attracted to that type of woman, then only you can change that.

It's OK to do nice things and be there for your woman -- but clearly these are not your women! You are just that one gullible man that every woman have in her phone in case of emergencies! And I bet they probably have you in their phone under "don't answer." I know this for a fact: Eight out of 10 "don't answers" will be in the VIP section of the woman's phone, because you answer every time we call, and do everything we say. Y'all just be aggravating! And no woman likes a bug!

Next time, go a different route. Go for the nicer woman. Don't be a pest, and before you jump for her every call, see what she about. Make sure she serious about you and will in fact do the same for you if you was in need. And make sure she don't mess with any guy that dog her out!


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