Magic City Kitty: I'm Gay, But...

Hello, Kitty: I have a major dilemma. I'm a gay male who's becoming curious about women. I have never been with a woman sexually. The problem is that I do not want to pay for sex because I'm not sure I will be able to go through with it. I've...

By Raina McLeod

October 22, 2009

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Hello, Kitty: I have a major dilemma. I'm a gay male who's becoming curious about women. I have never been with a woman sexually. The problem is that I do not want to pay for sex because I'm not sure I will be able to go through with it. I've gone online to meet women, and some have been excited because it's my first time. But I've never met any of them. It's all talk and no action. Then again, I don't want to get into a relationship with a woman and then when the sex comes, find out I don't like it. So I'm stuck. Should I live my life without acting on this curiosity? What other options do I have? Please help me. Thank you.

Ghat Fisch

Click here for Kitty's answer.

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