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'Til Death

Why did a gay-rights activist stab her wife with a screwdriver 222 times?

When Carol Anne Burger called police just before 1 p.m. October 23, 2008, she sounded panicked.

Jessica Kalish
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Jessica Kalish
Carol Anne Burger
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Carol Anne Burger

"I... I don't know if this is an emergency, but it could be," she told the 911 operator. Carol was breathing heavily. "My girlfriend didn't come home last night." She immediately rephrased her statement: "my roommate."

Carol stammered on: "And... um... I... you know, that's very unusual — she went to the gym... about 8:30 to 9 or something, and she didn't come home. I woke up this morning, and she wasn't here. And I just got a call now from a woman at Pyramid Books... somebody turned in her wallet and her car keys." Carol's heels clicked rhythmically in the background as she paced around the house. "I don't know where she is!"

The operator asked for her address, and Carol gave it, but she sounded hesitant, as though she wasn't quite prepared for the reality of investigators showing up at the house. "Now... you know... I don't know what what's... that's not... that's —"

"Hold on, ma'am," the operator interrupted. "I have to ask you some questions."

Carol said she wasn't sure about her roommate's age. She said she drove a gray BMW but didn't know the license plate. The cadence of her clicking heels picked up.

"I'll send someone over to meet with you," the operator told her.

"Oh," Carol said. "I can't — I'm supposed to be at the unemployment office." Then she relented: "I guess I'll call them."

Officer Evelyn McCoy arrived at the pink and yellow Boynton Beach house minutes later. Carol, age 57, was wearing makeup, a pantsuit, and three-inch heels. She repeated her story to McCoy: Her ex-girlfriend — they were separated but still living together — had left for the L.A. Fitness around 9 the night before and hadn't been home since. Carol said she'd tried calling to ask her to bring home milk but that the call had gone straight to voicemail.

"I don't know where she could be," Carol told the officer. "This is so unusual." McCoy briefly looked around and saw no signs of a struggle.

Police issued a missing-persons alert by 4 p.m., just in time for the evening news. The story aired on every local TV channel that night and was on the front page of every daily newspaper the next morning.

Jessica Kalish was a gregarious software executive who used to host AlterNet, a gay and lesbian radio talk show in Miami. Her wife, Carol, was a writer covering the presidential election for the Huffington Post. To outsiders, it seemed they were the embodiment of contemporary domestic bliss: two smart, professional women living in an immaculate house replete with screened-in pool, a cabana bathroom, and plenty of room for their two adopted racing greyhounds. Soon, though, all of South Florida learned the unsettling truth.

Just after 11 that night, a woman driving on Congress Avenue spotted Jessica's BMW sedan between two dumpsters, around the block from a police substation. The driver's-side window was smashed. There was blood splattered on the left side of the car. On the back tire. On the undercarriage. There was more blood — and hair the color of Jessica's — along the rear bumper. At the edge of the trunk. On the upholstery of both front seats.

And there, on the floorboard, stuffed headfirst beneath the back of the driver's seat, her legs bent awkwardly across the back seat, was the body of 56-year-old Jessica Kalish.

Lead detective Alfredo Martinez arrived within 20 minutes of the discovery. He knew immediately this was no indiscriminate robbery or random act of violence. "When I looked in the back seat, at first glance, you could automatically see that this was an emotionally driven crime," Martinez would recall. "Somebody was in a rage."

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Jessica spoke four languages, had a black belt in karate, and prided herself on being a tough, strong woman. She was tall and lean, with short, dark hair and eyes like tiny flames. She liked fine single-malt Scotch, expensive cigars, and smart, passionate women. She grew up in a quiet neighborhood in Queens, in a traditional Jewish home with both parents and a younger sister, Sibyl. As a child, Jessica would disassemble kitchen appliances and put them back together. She had an intense fascination, her family would later say, with the way the world fit together. She knew very young that she liked women, and at 17, she left her parents' house in Forest Hills to live a bohemian life in Greenwich Village.

"It was the 1960s, and Jessica epitomized the new kind of fearless lesbian," Sibyl Kalish remembers. "She wasn't really butch, and she wasn't a fem. Jessica always defied any label anyone wanted to put on her, but everyone around her fell in love with her energy and her desire to get the most out of every moment in life."

Jessica earned a scholarship to the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, where she was one of the first women enrolled in the esteemed engineering department. To pay the bills, she lied about her age and began working as a bartender in a lesbian bar and driving a taxi at night.

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  • tom totem 11/11/2009 4:32:00 AM

    No relationship is a meeting of equals, someone has to be boss. That claim made, I ask, if one woman was the "wife" was the other the "husband?" The 'butchie' bitch ought be boss! I say the rich bitch should have been less *!@@#$%ly selfish and been possessed of less devil than common sense and moved to NY to shack-up with her new flame and let the other live in peace until the house was sold, knowing full-well she was an unstable screaming bitch. The unbelievably arrogant lesbos both bought what they had sold. Faggot relationships are all a sad commentary on a self-indulgent, pleasure seeking, rules-be-dammed, solipsistic social ethos that pervades our "modern" culture. State of Florida, respecting the wishes of the age-old traditions of the vast majority of the population, refuses to legalise these sick relationships...within which some claim they are qualified to have and raise children!! God help us in these last days.

  • S PREMINGER 09/04/2009 11:29:00 PM

    THIS MESSAGE IS FOR SIMONE. YOU DIDN'T KNOW THESE WOMEN AND HAVE NOT RIGHT SAYING THEY WERE STUCK UP BITCHES. YOU ON THE OTHER HAND ARE AN INSENSITVE ASSHOLE!!!!!

  • Annoyed Reader 08/21/2009 3:39:00 PM

    I'm really starting to get sick of the same Miami New Times "writing." All the writers write the same way. You all try to sound like you are educated geeks, but all I get while I read your stories is: "i'm a dork who was beat up in middle school and I am exaggerating a story I heard somewhere else to fill up 5 web pages in order to look cool at Pop Life...or wherever the Mods and preppy-punks hang out nowadays." It's sort of life the modern version of mein kampf - sans the anti-semistim. Please learn how to write real stories about what people actually care about- like the New Times used to. You are starting to get annoying.

  • Steve 08/19/2009 12:20:00 PM

    While I support the rights ofgays to marry, this actually has nothing to do with the issue of marriage. Both of these women chose to stay together in the same house after their romantic relationship was over. The market was soft, so they couldn't sell the house. That situation has happened again and again - so what? Either or both women COULD have walked away from the house and relationship. Neither did. They could have acted like adults instead of children, in regards to how they handled the breakup. The bottom line is that if a man and woman were married and continued to live together under one roof after the marriage was over because they couldn't afford a divorce and couldn't sell the house due to the market, and then committed murder-suicide, there wouldn't be a story that would develop along the lines of this one. Also, let's not forget that if I buy a home with my next door neighbor or brother or parent, we can have a partnership agreement that addresses the question of the partnership ending. You don't have to be married to have a legal way to divide property, now do you?

  • 08/05/2009 12:07:00 AM

    Mr. Michael Mooney, So if Florida had allowed homosexual "marriage", this murder who not have occurred. No responsibility taken, none asked for. The logic is highly flawed and patronizing. Keep up the faulty reasoning, you're going places sir.

  • Carol Mickle 08/04/2009 10:36:00 PM

    Uh, not seeing the link here between gay marriage and a crazy woman who kills her significant other because she's enraged that her means of support may be getting cut off, or that Jessica was moving on and finding someone else. Happens in many hetero relationships: doesn't mean you kill someone over it; and it happens with hetero couples that are married and not married. Got nothing to do with hetero- or homo-, gots to do with someone being nuts or selfish or lazy! Carol made a living and supported herself before she met Jessica, it was time to move on and do that again.

  • Devon 08/04/2009 3:42:00 AM

    Honestly, they were NOT like everyone else..they were living in a lesbian relationship which contrary to the dangerous evil times that we are in, is not NORMAL in the least!! Sad for their families but these were wicked people that lived wickedly....

  • Harold Wagner 08/04/2009 12:13:00 AM

    "And in that way, Carol and Jessica were just like everyone else." Sure, everyone stabs spouses multiple times when they get stressed, perfectly normal, especially since the state didn't make it easy for them to separate.perfectly understandable, someone elses fault. nothing to see here.

  • Xerxes 08/03/2009 8:08:00 AM

    SCISSOR ME TIMBERS!

  • Michael 08/02/2009 6:03:00 AM

    For an otherwise competent piece of reporting, I just have to comment on the bizarre linkage made between this murder-suicide and the legal status of gay marriage in Florida. Message to the gullible: separations and divorces can and do become nasty, violent, and sometimes deadly. Legalizing gay marriage would not have changed the circumstances that lead to this murder - it would not have helped Carol become financially independent, or have helped her sell the house that she co-owned, or allowed allowed a happy ending in any possible way. What a silly and cheap politicization of a story.

  • jared 08/02/2009 1:36:00 AM

    Why is this written like a fucking novel instead of quality journalism? This article is a joke.

  • Jefe 08/01/2009 10:30:00 PM

    Marriage is between one man and one woman. Anything else is not marriage. That being said I would support the law in all 50 states being changed to allow for civil unions between same sex couples with ALL rights afforded to married couples.

  • Simon 08/01/2009 10:22:00 PM

    What the hell has this story got to do with same sex marriage. It's a murder pure and simple. Quite frankly both sounded like stuck up bitches and both deserved to kick the bucket. Case in point, they go around to neighbors to *announce* that they are gay. Who gives a flying fuck. Do heterosexual couples go around to gay neighbors to announce that they are straight? No the bloody don't. This couple were self indulgent and couldn't give a rats ass about either their neighbors or their family. Good riddance to them

  • anonymous 08/01/2009 5:23:00 PM

    I'm sorry but there's absolutely no reason she had to stay in the house. She may not have "liked" where she would have had to move to. She may have had to "slum it" for a while like the rest of us when we come on hard times. But you work hard, persevere and pretty soon you're back on your feet again. She could have left at any time whether she was "married" to her or not. Because someone tells you that you're now "divorced" from someone that would open a magical doorway that would have allowed her to move out and away from her wife??? Really???? She chose to stay there. She chose to continue the pain she was experiencing. We are human beings and we *all* have a little something called free will. That means you can do whatever you want, whenever you want, however you want. You may not like the new set of circumstances your actions caused but you must own your own life and the choices that you make. It's simple responsibility. Grow up.

  • anonymous 08/01/2009 5:20:00 PM

    I'm sorry but there's absolutely no reason she had to stay in the house. She may not have "liked" where she would have had to move to. She may have had to "slum it" for a while like the rest of us when we come on hard times. But you work hard, persevere and pretty soon you're back on your feet again. She could have left at any time whether she was "married" to her or not. Because someone tells you that you're now "divorced" from someone that would open a magical doorway that would have allowed her to move out and away from her wife??? Really???? She chose to stay there. She chose to continue the pain she was experiencing. We are human beings and we *all* have a little something called free will. That means you can do whatever you want, whenever you want, however you want. You may not like the new set of circumstances your actions caused but you must own your own life and the choices that you make. It's simple responsibility. Grow up.

  • Rich 07/31/2009 10:59:00 PM

    What a horrific story but yet so true in the gay and lesbian lifestyle. For we have no rights as do our counter parts man and wife. If they could have separated as most divorcing couples do this all could have ended so differently and they could have moved on with there lives as hard as it is to do in any marriage. But forced to stay together until the house was sold and split up the lifestyle they had built together for so many years was to devastating for Carol to handle. Watching Jessica go on with her life as though the years they spent together meant nothing. Just imagine yourself in this situation under the tension grief and sadness. How would you handle it? Its time for our states and country to recognize we are here and not going away. We have long relationships and live as do married couples but with no rights. Whether we have civil unions, marriage or something that gives us the rights as so many married couples that have the right to make health decisions for each other know when something isn�t right with there spouse or to divorce amicably. Lets step to the plate already and do the right thing here already we want and need the same rights as married couples have. So this kind of tragedy doesn�t have to happen again.

  • Ken Dowd 07/21/2009 11:55:00 PM

    22,500 lobbyists-- May 31, 2009 I ALLEGE Ken Dowd (1st page of 8 sent to US SENATE) 2009 I allege--Dr. Glenn Bradley, was a Norvartis Pharmaceutical Executive Board Member, Basel, Switzerland, and CEO, Ciba Vision Corporation, maker and distributor of contact lenses, Duluth, Georgia, 30096, USA, purchase Wesley-Jessen Corporation, maker and distributor of contact lenses, Des Plaines, Illinois. Wesley-Jessen problems of expired, misbranded, and mislabeled product now was passed to Ciba Vision Corporation. An illegal program was written to allow these contact lenses to pass the Licensed Program. Consequently, 2001 thru 2004, lenses were shipped all over the world, as well as, many millions of lenses adjusted into the inventory, illegally. DISBAR NORVARTIS PHARMACEUTICAL, FEDERAL AND STATE LAW AGENTS TO JAIL. OBSTRUCTION OF JUSTICE ----I HAVE THE PROOF My group lead, and myself wrote to the FDA, Atlanta, GA. FDA, Ombudsman, Rockville, MD., and the FDA Compliance, Rockville, Md. July, 2004 until this date, nothing has happen on this case. Although FDA, Ronald Swann, destroyed the physical evidence, the Uniform Federal Barcode is saved for ==13 YEARS== at Ciba Vision. Let�s look at some manifests. Norvartis/Ciba Vision Corporation hid at least $50 million dollars and put it in inventory, after taking a tax credit for lost lenses. MY CASE HAS NO CASE NUMBER: FDA-Atlanta, GA., USA can open case. I wrote the US Senate in 2005, 2006, 2007, 2008, and, now 2009. The entire US Senate is obstructing justice. There is a page in this packet showing all who received Certified Letters/Return Receipt. JAIL THE FBI, CIA, FDA, SENATORS, FTC, SEC AND ATLANTA,GA. FDA OFFICALS, FBI, OIG, CHIEF JUDGE, US ATTORNEY. 21 CFR 801.6 Medical devices; misleading statements: Among representations in the labeling of a device which render such device misbranded is a false and misleading representation with respect to another device or a drug or food or cosmetic. FDA, RONALD SWANN, WROTE TO ME THREE TIMES STATING HE HAD OPEN THE CASE. I HAVE TWO LETTERS FROM THE APPEALS BOARD STATING THE CASE IS CONFITDENTIAL. FDA, RONALD SWANN CAN NOT OPEN A CASE, AND THE APPEAL LETTERS ARE ALL FELONIES--NO CASE NUMBER. If these felony letters are not enough, I can be polygraph by an FBI or State polygraph. There are presently 22,000 lobbyists in Washington DC, spending up to $17 million a day, each day Congress is in session, about 160 days. Media is afraid: 139 newspapers in Ohio received copies of the felony letters, before Obama, Clinton, and McCain campaigned. NY Times, LA Times, and Wash. Post received Cert/Return letters. KICK OUT THE CORRUPT GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS. This case will do it. Ken Dowd, PO Box 2018, Duluth, Georgia,30096 USA Telephone 770-831-8581 I need a publisher. I polygraph.

  • Jules 07/21/2009 11:34:00 PM

    The last sentence of the story says it all. These women had the same problems everyone else had. It makes their tragic end even more sad. Jessica sounds like a lovely wonderful woman. Carol sounds like she needed help badly.

  • Larry Hughes 07/17/2009 1:20:00 AM

    Why isn't this getting bigger national attention? Two women were trapped in a marriage the state wouldn't recognize. This could change the gay marriage debate in this country!

  • David 07/16/2009 4:17:00 AM

    This is horrific. When will people realize we are all the same inside? Thank you for the beautiful story of two women we will miss very much.

  • anonymous 07/15/2009 9:06:00 PM

    I wish I could send this story to every biggot in this state who voted to stop gay people from the right to right to marry. This is a fantastic portrait of how serious these things can be.

  • Miamishelia 07/15/2009 5:03:00 AM

    So sad. Relationships are difficult. Hopefully this story will humanize the problems with gay relationships.

 

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